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Instant Gratification

Or; why I don’t offer same-day sessions.

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Excellent for deterring those pesky Neck Pigeons.

Look, I get it. I know it’s exciting and nerve-wracking, and that sometimes you suspect that if you don’t just get it done then and there, you’ll never do it.
Am I talking about tattoos? Actually no, but there’s certainly an analogy in there. I’m sure plenty of places like tattoo and piercing parlours have a similar level of “Hi can you see me today?” requests.

You might think that it’s “worth a shot” or “can’t hurt to ask”, but actually as a first timer sending me a line like the above just indicates to me that you haven’t thought this through at all, and, more importantly, you don’t care that:
a) it’s an experience with me, as you couldn’t care less who is smacking/shouting at you, you just want it from anybody and,
b) that perhaps, just perhaps, I want to actually enjoy said experience too.

The guys who write 1-2 line emails like the above are not going to lead to sessions I’m interested in. I have no desire to be the “you’ll do” for your impulse wank fantasy, and if you can’t even be bothered to write a paragraph about what sort of session it is that you are even interested in, you certainly do not deserve the level of detail, planning and energy I put in to my scenes.

I state on my website that I usually require 3-4 days’ notice for bookings. This is an estimation, and sometimes that notice can be stretched to as little as 24 hours. Same day? No.

Why?

Well for starters because that is how I do things. Which should be the end of that explanation, but things on the internet often need spelling out a little more. So…

) I don’t live in a venue. Nor do I work from home. The various places I do offer sessions from are all studios, rooms or dungeons that I pay to hire, chosen for their suitability to each enquiry. They also all have their own calendars to juggle, meaning that not only is it harder to shoehorn additional bookings in with no notice, but it’s also a bit disrespectful to the owners of the venues. You give me notice, which gives them notice. Everyone’s feeling more relaxed.

2) I have a full and busy life outside of creating and running scenes and parties. Which means I don’t just sit around in a venue all day waiting for the phone to go. That would also be creepy due to point 1).

3) I need to plan. Just because you’ve said that it’s going to be  a “standard school-theme session/usual headmistress stuff” doesn’t mean that I’m going to just autopilot from cold. Even the sessions in which I’m requested to be dressed casually (not yet had one asking for me in sweatpants or a onesie, mind…) and be super informal are still thought through. I need to know someone’s previous experiences/current expectations, and be in the most receptive headspace to read the reactions and body language of whoever I’m playing with so that I can deliver the optimal experience that I am known for. So much of what I do that is devastating to you is non-physical, and without sounding like a total wanker, it’s actually quite full-on both emotionally and physically for me. I’ll usually be pretty  damn tired after a few hours of play, no matter how exhilarating it was. It’s not a bad thing, obviously, but it’s something I’d love more people to bear in mind.

4) Anticipation is a cruel and wonderful thing. I love knowing that the person I’m going to be playing with is having to have at least one night’s sleep with the tingling, inexorable awareness in the back of their mind that an intense, and possibly terrifying, experience is going to happen. Even if someone doesn’t directly dream about the upcoming session, the trepidation starts a chemical reaction in the body that just isn’t there for something last minute. Too subtle for some, maybe, but the devil is in the detail, as they say.

5) This list shouldn’t need to be this long, so just respect my time and energy, and reap the eventual endorphin reward, smug in the knowledge that I had a fun/satisfying time too.


Multi-Domme Strap-on party!

I’m very excited to be thrusting my way through the Domina Parties’ Strap-on Extravaganza party on October 3rd at 7pm in London!

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I’ll be warming my hips up for plenty of rudeness, as will around 10 other ladies, all also sporting fetching fake cocks. For those who’d really like to explore their slutty nature, there’s the option of forced-bi with a dominant bull master.

See below for their own press release, and how you can attend!

From Domina Parties:

7pm Thursday 3 October ~ Strap-On / Forced Bi Party, 7pm arrival for a 7.30pm SHARP start! Following on from the success of our previous Strap-on / Forced Bi Parties, we are pleased to announce our next event to be held at a fabulous venue in SE5.

Be violated by our lovely Dominas – Miss Kitty Bliss, Goddess Cleo, Goddess Aviana, Mistress Evilyne and Madame Asha along with a close circle of their Dominant friends including Mistress Ava Von Medisin, Governess Ely, Ms Nikki, Miss Amy Hunter, Amelia, special guest Mistress Chatterley, and more! Also in attendance will be the handsome, fit Dominant Bull Master Baron and a very large collection of strap-ons and various bum-toys, so we invite you to come along and party with the Ladies for an evening of unrivaled deviance and debauchery. Is strap-on fun your idea of heaven? Then this party is will be right up your alley! Add into the equation the option of some Forced-Bi action and this is one event that could, quite literally, give you the ride of your life! Gang bang or spit-roast heaven, anyone?!

Great venue in SE5 with dungeon equipment, access to a well-stocked and reasonably priced bar and numbers are strictly limited. £180 to attend, better get in quick because this one will no doubt book out!

Email: dominaparties@gmail.com to join the fun…..

NB: Forced Bi is OPTIONAL, if you do not elect to be involved, then you will not be included in the forced bi activities… Voyeurs welcome, £100.